The Grudge

I’m the kind of person that holds grudges… but not for very long.  I’m useless at it, no commitment.  I feel that to be able to hold a grudge properly, you really need to dedicate yourself to the cause.  No contact whatsoever with the person involved, and that includes messaging either by text or social media.  And that’s why I’m terrible at holding grudges.

It also doesn’t help that I don’t believe in holding a grudge.  Nobody likes to go to sleep on a disagreement, so I try not to.  I hadn’t seen my Mum in nearly two weeks because in my mind, we were in a fight, minus the fighting.  I have learned that you just need to accept people for who they are, their quirks and personality.  Trying to change anything about them means that you’re trying to change who they are, and if you do that and succeed, are they still the person that you loved in the beginning or a shell that you moulded into what you wanted to see?

Lesson learned.  Don’t hold grudges because life is short and you want to spend time on this earth loving the ones that you are with.  Accept them for who they are and what they stand for and understand that you can’t change everyone.  Well, that’s it for me though.  Doesn’t mean I won’t get frustrated every now and then, but I like to think I’m on the right track.


Today sounds like… 
 ‘I Am The Best’ by Korea’s 2NE1!  Holy moly I love this song and I don’t even know what they’re saying, except for the words “Oh my god” and “billion dollar baby”.  I love it because of the beat, the attitude and especially the hot video!

I used this song in my Zumba classes last year because it’s fun and infectious.  It was bound to land on this blog at some point, so enjoy it for what it is; fun!  You can watch the video below and subscribe to the playlist that it’s now on on Spotify!

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‘Seven Degrees of Change’ now has a Spotify Playlist.  Click the logo on the right to access it on Spotify where you can find all of the previous ‘Today Sounds Like’ songs.  Don’t forget to hit the ‘Follow’ button in the app so you’ll get the all of the future additions automatically.